Yes, today is technically the fourth day of the year, but it is the first day of the year for me. The holiday is officially over, my husband has gone back to work, and it is time to get back to the grind. But this year's grind is so much stronger than last's. Is 2016 going to be your year?
I have seen so many jokes and memes on social media over the past week or so poking fun at New Year's Resolutions. These mainly exist because people generally have a good idea to better themselves, but cannot seem to follow through with anything past January.
But what if I told you that you CAN accomplish everything you set out to do on January 1st and are more than able to follow through all the way to December? If you are absolutely serious about wanting to achieve your resolutions this year, then read on. I have compiled a list of tips to not only make, but also
stick to your "New You."
1. Don't make "New Year's Resolutions."
They only apply to the new year (and the year isn't new for very long). Instead, make a list of "2016 Goals" or "Things to do in 2016." This way, you give yourself a realistic time line to accomplish what you set out to do.
2. WRITE THEM DOWN.
It is proven that people who write down their goals have a higher success rate than those who simply think them. Writing them down gives you accountability. Give yourself deadlines throughout the year for each goal. Put them somewhere you can see them on a regular basis: your fridge, above your desk, on your bedroom mirror. If one of your goals includes a daily change, write it in dry erase marker on your dirty bathroom mirror. Include affirmations (Conquer today, Stay positive, Look for a reason to smile, Compliment someone today, etc.)
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You don't realize how difficult it is to take a picture of writing on a mirror until you actually do it. Sorry for the poor quality. These are mine personal reminders. I will add or change throughout the year. |
3. Commit.
Don't write down anything you are not serious about doing and are not willing to put in work for. Changing and growing is serious business.
4. It is okay to modify your list as your priorities change.
For example, I have three major business ventures on my list, all in varying degrees of work and desired growth. Once I began approaching the beginning of the year and started working at things on my list, I realized that the item I had given the least priority to is now the one I want to prioritize the most. Does that make sense? So now I will be modifying my list and my schedule (I will talk about this momentarily) to reflect that.
5. Do NOT lower your expectations based on your situation.
I said you can modify your goals. That is not the same as making excuses for why you cannot achieve something on your list. "Oh, I can't do this because of this reason." You can do anything you want. You are the only one stopping you. If a goal is not reachable this year, make it a long term goal. When is your deadline for achieving this particular goal? Remember: "Someday" is not a day. Make yourself a list titled "Long term goals."
6. It is not enough to just set goals.
You need an action plan. What are you doing to achieve them? Myself, I have created a schedule for each day of the week so I can manage my time. Each day has a different purpose, but the schedule still includes times for daily chores (a load of dishes, cook dinner, homework with kids, etc.).
This is a system I started a little over a year and a half ago. By November of 2015, I had crossed off all of my goals for the year and started writing down new ones for this year. It absolutely works, but you need to believe that you can do everything on your list.
The schedule part is new for me, but I have a lot more to do this year than last, and I am horrible at managing my time. I am confident that once I get myself in the right routine, I can get everything done that I need to. I have even deleted all games off of my phone and limited my TV time to my nights off only after the kids have gone to bed. For the most part, if it does not help me reach my goals, I do not have time for it. I encourage you all to also find your time wasters and eliminate them.
Happy New Year!